On Maintaining a Healthy Perspective During These Difficult Times

In the visual arts we talk a lot about perspective, a compositional concept that allows us to explore the relationship between objects in a frame (i.e composing a photograph so that elements closer to the camera appear larger than objects that are farther away), or the relationship between the camera and the objects in the frame (i.e. photographing something from a lower perspective to make it appear taller than it really is).

Perspective is something that is part of our daily life too though, isn’t it?  It defines our attitudes and our point of view on any given subject.  Maintaining a healthy perspective is so important, especially during stressful times like these, but it can be hard to do when we are deluged by a barrage of non-stop scary news cycles.

Much has been written about protecting our physical health during the COVID-19 outbreak, but we also need to prioritize maintaining our mental health as well.  So many of my peers are going out of their way right now to do things that support the photography community:  my friends Kevin and Neale over at the FujiCast are doing their podcast daily, Zack Arias is posting again, photographers are offering tips on how to stay creative while photographing around the house, friends are giving away free education online… it is wonderful to see our community come together like this.  I’d like to take a bit of a different approach today and talk about how we can maintain a healthy perspective through these troubled times.  This is an area that I’ve had a lot of personal experience with via my time as a paramedic and with my PTSD. 

So, if you are struggling right now, if you are experiencing feelings like anxiety, depression, helplessness, fear or anger, I hope that this post will help you just a little bit.  It’s a long one, with some thoughts about how to stay mentally strong woven into the story of a short trip I took a while back.

Just before the COVID-19 outbreak really broke here in British Columbia, when it was transitioning from something we occasionally saw on the news to something that would eventually effect us all, my family took a quick trip to Victoria, BC.  My wife went to university in Victoria many years ago, so every time we visit this magnificent city we return to some of her old haunts.  You could tell at this point that people were starting to get a little bit nervous about COVID-19…. the streets were less busy, the restaurants weren’t full, etc.  Other countries, far away, were starting to talk about a quarantine and closure of non essential businesses, and there was a sense that those steps might soon happen here as well.

During the trip we visited my wife’s favourite restaurant, where I made the image above of a gentleman who has worked there for over 30 years.  My wife recognized his voice as soon as we walked in the door and he embraced us (in a non physical way) as long lost friends while seating us at our table.  We had long conversations while he served us, reminiscing of my wife’s college years and his years at the restaurant.

This gentleman has a lot to lose if he can’t work.  He has children.  A lot of children.  Like, Brady Bunch levels of children.  And, on top of that, he and his wife foster kids as well.  I’m sure he was starting to sense that the world was changing, just as we all were, but you’d never know it to talk to him.  All you could feel was his warmth, his delight and his pride in doing what he does so well.  A lot of people depend on this man, his work feeds a lot of mouths,  but despite any concerns that he may have had he maintained a wonderfully positive attitude.    We walked the city streets for the remainder of the day, spending time along the ocean and enjoying the warmth of the winter’s sun shining down on us.  The joy of being out was tempered of course, that unspoken awareness in the back of our minds that things would probably change very soon.As the days turned into weeks the distancing recommendations that are now so well know to all of us came to British Columbia.  I closed my business for the foreseeable future, cancelled or rescheduled my photography clients, shopped for groceries and necessities, and, finally, I squirrelled myself away with my wife and daughter at home.  

Since then, like many people, I have followed the news coming out of countries from all over the world.  I have watched COVID-19 spread, both through the eyes of a health care provider and through the eyes of a citizen.  I have heard fear when talking to people who are consuming a 24/7 diet of online doom and gloom, and I have watched horribly misinformed people become armchair experts in areas like virology and pandemic disease.

This constant barrage, this onslaught of negative news, can easily impact our perspective on life.  COVID-19 has brought us health concerns, financial concerns, worry for our families and for our neighbours.  For many people COVID-19 has brought very real loss and, because we aren’t yet at levels were the pandemic has peaked, we can’t see an end to the damage.

It is hard not to think about worst case scenarios right now, but the reality is that we need to take a vigilant but patient wait and see approach… this is the first step in maintaining a healthy perspective.  We don’t have crystal balls and no one, not even the world’s leading experts, can say for sure what the outcome of this pandemic will be.  Yes, we have projections.  Yes, I have my own personal beliefs on it, but in the end it is all an unknown (which can be the hardest part for somebody who is sitting at home with nothing to do but think).

It reminds me of the following story:

Once upon a time, there was a farmer in the central region of China. He didn’t have a lot of money and, instead of a tractor, he used an old horse to plow his field. 

One afternoon, while working in the field, the horse dropped dead. Everyone in the village said, “Oh, what a horrible thing to happen.” The farmer said simply, “We’ll see.” He was so at peace and so calm, that everyone in the village got together and, admiring his attitude, gave him a new horse as a gift. 

Everyone’s reaction now was, “What a lucky man.” And the farmer said, “We’ll see.” 

A couple days later, the new horse jumped a fence and ran away. Everyone in the village shook their heads and said, “What a poor fellow!”

The farmer smiled and said, “We’ll see.”

Eventually, the horse found his way home, and everyone again said, “What a fortunate man.” 

The farmer said, “We’ll see.”

Later in the year, the farmer’s young boy went out riding on the horse and fell and broke his leg. Everyone in the village said, “What a shame for the poor boy.”

The farmer said, “We’ll see.”

Two days later, the army came into the village to draft new recruits. When they saw that the farmer’s son had a broken leg, they decided not to recruit him.

Everyone said, “What a fortunate young man.”

The farmer smiled again – and said “We’ll see.”

What is the point of this story?  To me it is that we gain little from overreacting or worrying about things that are out of our hands.  Right now, more than ever, we should invest our time and mental energy on the things that are still within our grasp.  As many people have said before:  We cannot always control what is happening, but we can control how we react to it.

Our day in Victoria ended with a short walk back to the hotel.  The sun had set during dinner, so we walked back in that beautiful post sunset light that photographers love so much.  My family kept walking but I stopped to snap a few frames, knowing that this would be the last time I visited anywhere until it was safe to do so again.  I enjoyed the brisk winter evening, my camera in hand, and just let it all soak in.  This was a moment that I could control and I loved every second of it.

Over the days and weeks since that night I have seen so many wonderful acts of courage, kindness and love.  I have seen health care workers, paramedics, police officers, first responders, grocery store workers, teachers, neighbours, truckers and strangers go above and beyond.  As a former emergency health care provider myself I keep a close eye on COVID-19 out of professional interest, but personally I choose to invest my time and emotions into reading about the good that brave people are doing all over the world rather than the scary unknown that is constantly talked about.  I am making a choice to focus my energy on the things that I can directly control or influence, rather than the things that are out of my grasp.

One of the best comments I have read came from my friend’s father.  He said (slightly paraphrased):

“What we’re witnessing right now is not the end of the world, but the most remarkable act of global solidarity we may ever see.”

This is a wonderful comment.  And, it is a wonderful perspective.  It has been decades since the world was asked to come together to do something…. perhaps there is a silver lining in all of this that will eventually make the world a better place?  

I’d like to end with a Fred Rogers quote that I share often.  The quote says:

“When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, ‘Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.’ To this day, especially in times of ‘disaster,’ I remember my mother’s words and I am always comforted by realizing that there are still so many helpers—so many caring people in this world.” 

We are definitely seeing all of those caring people right now, aren’t we?  The truth is that this time we are ALL helpers:  every one of us has an opportunity to save lives and bring this current pandemic to a close by following our local directions.  I don’t know when life will return to normal.  I do know, however, that humanity overcomes, and we artists will continue to do the important work of documenting that humanity.

Keep good thoughts my friends.  Take steps to ensure that your perspective is healthy.  Tune out the noise, turn off the TV, let the experts do their work (and you do your part as well).  If you feel stress or anxiety building remember the words of the farmer:  

“We’ll see.”

Take this time to invest in yourself, in your family, in your friends and in your art… for the busyness of “life” will return soon enough.  In the meantime, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me if any of you need anything.  I am always here.

Cheers,

Ian

The Sun Still Shines…

I will remember the winter of 2020 as a long, dark period; one marked by feelings stirred up while helping others through their struggles and by the death of my father.  The long winter continues now of course, fuelled by the daily onslaught of COVID-19 related news and the cancellation this week of a family vacation to Disneyland (we were to touch down in LA the day they announced the park closures).

All of this can seem like a lot, can’t it?  Especially when you consider that we humans are wired with a negative bias (our DNA is still watching out for Saber-toothed Tigers), which means that it is easy to become overwhelmed by all of these negative feelings if we allow it to happen.  

Amongst the chaos of life’s challenges, however, there are still opportunities to find peace and simple moments of joy.  Such was the case earlier this year, when I finally had the chance to get away and be a photographer again.  I spent a few days in a city that I love, spending time with my amazing wife and with my photography friends.  I felt the sun on my face, I relaxed and watched the world go by, I dined with friends, and I made photos again with intention and purpose.  It was a wonderful reminder that no matter how dark the winter is… the sun will always shine again.

Even now, at a time when we should all be making realistic modifications to our daily lives to help slow the spread of COVID-19, the sun will continue to shine.  I won’t be travelling again for a while, but there are ways that I can find moments of joy while still doing my part to protect the herd and keep pressure off of our health care system:  I can spend time with my family, shoot landscapes, process old photos, read books, play guitar, re-watch old movies, go out and enjoy my city in a way that respects social distancing, do yoga, etc.

No matter how dark the winter is… the sun will shine again.

So, keep your hands clean my friends.  Don’t use hand rails when going up stairs.  Try not to touch your face while you are out and about.  Stay home if you feel ill.  Stay 6’ away from people when you can.  Perhaps phone or Skype at risk family members and friends rather than visiting them face to face for a little while (remember, you can be an asymptomatic carrier).  Understand that these common sense actions aren’t just about keeping you safe, they are about protecting the herd and our health care system.  They are about protecting immunocompromised people.  They are about protecting pregnant people.  They are about protecting our elderly who have co-morbidities.  After all, we are in this together, right?

Most importantly though:  Be purposeful in deriving joy from your life and your art, even during these troubled times.  No, especially during these troubled times.  Don’t let your passion get drowned out by negative bias or by the onslaught of news that the media sends our way.  Use common sense, but always let the sun shine in… for all winters come to an end.

And with that, I shall leave you with some new photographs.  I hope you like them.

Best wishes,

Ian

What Will Your Verse Be?

The powerful play goes on and you may contribute a verse.  What will your verse be?”

– Walt Whitman

“The meaning of life is to find your gift.  The purpose of life is to give it away.”

– Pablo Picasso

2020 is in full swing for most of us, the celebrations of New Year’s Eve already a distant memory.  I normally start each year energized, eager to plan out my year and attack new goals with intent and purpose.  My calendar fills with product launches, travel, presentations, podcasts, workshops, Skype sessions… and before I know it summer has arrived.

This year started out differently though.  Our usual cold, rainy days were followed by snow, causing power outages and blanketing the sky with lifeless grey clouds.  Productive planning sessions were replaced by contemplative periods, and most of my time has been spent writing, playing guitar, and walking the dog.

These have been slow days…. quiet days…. good days.

I initially attributed this different pace to my father’s recent passing, especially as it has only been 21 days since I delivered his eulogy, but more and more I am realizing that there is something bigger forming in my mind… a desire to do something special that is not yet defined.

The last few years have been incredibly productive:  I have reviewed a lot of gear, written almost 300 articles, guested or guest hosted on dozens of podcasts, delivered hundreds of presentations and taught thousands of students.  I cherish all of these things, with no intention of slowing down or stopping, so this desire isn’t because I am unsatisfied with the work that I am doing.  It is, rather, a desire to do something new… something… bigger.  I find myself constantly thinking of the quotes that I started this post with, especially this one:

“The powerful play goes on and you may contribute a verse.  What will your verse be?”

I have always felt that my “verse” was the work that I do with my students.  I am a creator to be sure:  I love crafting a wonderful image, creating a well written essay, or nailing a song on my guitar.  But, I find more joy from seeing my students grow as artists.  It is what I live for.

I am realizing now, however, that the Create Forever project that I participated in last fall set off a huge period of intrinsic reflection… reflection focused on things like service to others and personal fulfillment.  I am sure that these feelings were compounded by many hours spent writing my father’s eulogy, where I spoke about his amazing life, his remarkable accomplishments, and his legacy.

So, it is time for me to write a new verse; not to replace what I am currently doing, but to build something new that can exist alongside my current work and contribute to this wonderful community of people that I am a part of.  It doesn’t need to change the world, but it definitely needs to be meaningful.

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I am writing this post while sitting in my favourite coffee shop.  It is another rainy Vancouver day, and I am taking a break from reading a script that a film-maker and respected friend sent me.

The script is for a short film, an intensely personal project that tells the story of a loved one’s mental health struggles.  The story is told with passion, with love, and with an artistic vision that I hope to one day achieve in my own work.  In summary, it is brilliant.

This is a great example of what I am talking about:  My friend is writing a new verse in his powerful play, and it couldn’t be more awesome.  I am very proud of him.  And, I am inspired by him as well.

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Have you ever felt like this?  Like there was something building inside of you… something that you just had to do or create?  If so, I would love to hear about it in the comments below, just as I absolutely plan on writing about my journey here on this site.

In the meantime of course, life goes on:  Soon you will see new work on this site from San Francisco and Los Angeles.  My street photography workshops in Vancouver and Toronto are filling up nicely, and I have many speaking engagements and weddings already booked.  I am sure that Fujifilm will release new equipment of course, which we will definitely discuss here as well.

The powerful play goes on and on though, doesn’t it?  And, it is time to write a new verse.

…what will it be?  What will your verse be for 2020?

Cheers,

Ian